March 11th, 2010
By Mary Rarick
I’m still in shock after reading about a Mississippi school that chose to cancel their prom rather than have it attended by a lesbian couple. My shock is so profound that it’s rendered me speechless.
A couple of questions spring to mind:
1. What is the school board afraid of? The girls’ safety? Don’t they attend this very same high school every day?
2. Aren’t all proms a bit of a “distraction to the educational process”?
3. Do Portland public schools have the same criteria for bringing a date to prom?
I have heard multiple examples from both of my teens about inappropriate (hetero) PDA at their high school that has left them feeling uncomfortable. And yet it persists.
So let’s just call this what it is then? Discrimination.
Note to self: the lesbian couple did not ruin prom for everyone else, as has been asserted. The school board ruined prom.
Tags: discrimination, gay, homosexual, lesbian, prom, school board, students
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February 28th, 2010
By Mary Rarick
Since I love to cook our family tends to make meals from scratch. And so I have no idea why I’ve never even attempted to make pizza sauce.
Yesterday, after discovering we were out of bottled sauce, I started scouring cookbooks and the internet to see if I could find a recipe that would please both the adult and teen palates that grace our household.
Mission accomplished: the following recipe, the first one I tried, elicited rave reviews from both my husband, a pizza connoisseur, and my 15-year-old son. Give it a try and let me know what you think.
Pizza Sauce
Ingredients:
1 (6 oz.) can tomato paste
6 fluid oz. warm water
3 T. grated Parmesan cheese
1 tsp. minced garlic
2 T. honey
1 tsp. anchovy paste (optional – I used a splash of fish sauce)
1/4 tsp. dried oregano
1/4 tsp. dried marjoram
1/4 tsp. dried basil
1/4 tsp. ground black pepper
1/8 tsp. cayenne pepper
1/8 tsp. dried red pepper flakes
salt to taste
Directions:
1. In a small bowl, combine tomato paste, water, Parmesan cheese, garlic, honey, anchovy paste, onion powder, oregano, marjoram, basil, ground black pepper, cayenne pepper, red pepper flakes and salt; mix together, breaking up any clumps of cheese.
2. Sauce should sit for 30 minutes to blend flavors; spread over pizza dough and prepare pizza as desired.
Tags: cooking, pizza sauce, recipe
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February 21st, 2010
By Mary Rarick
Now I remember why I hate sleepovers. Yes, there’s the noise, and the inconvenience of not having use of my house, and the feeling of being held captive in my house babysitting other people’s children. And the noise. But that’s not the worst part of sleepovers.
The worst part of sleepovers is the parents. That’s right. The ones who drop their kids off never to check in or return.
Not just the little ones. The teens are abandoned without vehicles, and the host parents are then expected to provide rides home.
So why do I host more sleepovers than all of the rest of my kids’ friends’ parents combined?
1. I love seeing the kids all together and watching them interact.
2. It’s the very best way to find out what’s really going on with your child.
3. There’s no better way to get to know your kids’ friends.
4. My kids love having sleepovers and I love seeing my kids happy.
This is just a brief moment in my kids’ lives. And it’s the compilations of brief moments like these that create many happy memories. For all of us.
Tags: carpooling, sleepovers
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February 20th, 2010
By Mary Rarick
Have you had the what-to-do-when-you’re-stopped-by-the-police talk with your kids? If not, I’m guessing your kids are white.
The unwarranted shooting of Aaron Campbell has everyone questioning whether or not race was one of the factors. What most acknowledge, yet few openly admit, is that, sadly, it probably was.
In her article in today’s Oregonian, Nikole Hannah-Jones interviewed Rob Ingram, head of Portland’s Office of Youth Violence Program.
How embarrassing that we live in a society where parents have to explain to their young children that because for no reason other than the color of their skin they will be stopped by the police–it’s not a question of if but when, on average once a week.
What are we going to do about it?
Tags: police, Portland police, race, racial profiling, teens, tweens, youth, youth violence
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